If your man doesn’t satisfy you sexually, that’s not an automatic license to start looking outside. Cheating will only create deeper wounds and destroy the trust you both built. Instead, help him learn how to please you.

Talk about your desires, guide him with patience, and explore what works for both of you. Marriage or a committed relationship thrives on understanding, communication, and adjustments. Nobody is born knowing exactly how to please their partner, most times, it’s through learning each other over time.

So be open, be playful, teach him gently, and watch how your intimacy grows. That’s how mature love works.

• Ekene Umenwa